reader mail monday: a christmas gift for an unpredictable shoe-lover
dear hip hip shoe-ray,
my sister is an avid shoe-lover, but I can never guess her taste. sometimes she likes shoes with 5-inch heels and a platform, other days she opts for something much more conservative.
on the other hand, it feels impersonal and sort of thoughtless to get her a gift certificate to a shoe store. any bright ideas?
respectfully,
at a loss
dear at a loss,
don't be at a loss! you have plenty of gift-giving choices for your sister (who we love because she loves shoes!).
first, it's perfectly acceptable to take a stab and buy a pair of shoes you think she might like – just be sure to include the receipt in case it turns out she'd rather have something else.
if you're unsure whether to go the conservative or more "fun" route, you could always try something in between, like the dolly by calvin klein for $63.
the 2.75" heel is sweet but not too over-the-top, and the evergreen suede adds a bit of uniqueness and personality.
if you're able to spend a little bit more, I can guarantee that no shoe-lover will complain upon receiving an honest-to-goodness frye riding boot, like the harness 12R for $218:
what's not to like? this boot is particularly versatile – your sis could wear it with a skirt for some flair or with jeans for a more practical look.
if you still don't feel comfortable buying a pair of shoes for her, I'd argue that gift certificates are not impersonal and thoughtless – particularly if it's to her favorite shoe store.
or, has your sister mentioned a particular local boutique that she's been wanting to check out? if so, consider buying her a gift certificate from there. you never know – it could become her newest favorite place to buy shoes, all thanks to you!
sincerely,
hip hip shoe-ray
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I have never, ever understood the idea that gift cards are thoughtless. Here, I'm letting you pick out what you actually need or want, versus foisting crap on you that you have to pretend to be grateful for. Oh, I'm so thoughtless.